Pastor’s Corner

This Sunday’s Mass: (7-5-20)

Video Masses will continue to be offered for the foreseeable future while the church will be open for you to come to Mass.  Masses will take place on Saturday at 5:00 PM, and on Sunday at 8:00 AM,  10:00 AM, and 12:00 noon.  The weekend schedule will continue to be evaluated to allow for everyone to be admitted to Mass.


In good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer…”

The above words, all of which are part of different versions of the marriage ceremony, always seem to me to be extremely realistic, accurate, and most of all, honest. All love relationships, especially marriage, are inevitably filled with good and bad times, all kinds of challenging “ups and downs,” as well as many times that seem for “the better,” and many experiences of “the worse.” The love relationships of our lives help to form us and shape who we are. Our relationships and friendships give purpose and direction to our lives. They offer us meaning, joy, and peace. But they always require hard work, faithful effort, and constant decision making. The same is true of each person’s relationship with God.

The question, “Do you think of yourself as having a relationship with God?” is an important one for all of us. When this question comes up, I find that most Christians answer in the affirmative, but they often qualify the answer with a kind of regret such as: “Yes, I do think of myself as having a relationship with God although I have not paid too much attention to it recently” or “Yes, I have a relationship with God, but it really needs some work” or the most frequent answer, “Yes, I have a relationship with God, but I regret to say that I usually only turn to that relationship when I need God or when I am facing some kind of crisis.”

In today’s Gospel, Jesus’ words can wipe away all that regret. He invites us to an ongoing experience of God’s all-embracing and healing love: “Jesus exclaimed, ‘Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for yourselves, for my yoke is easy and my burden light.’”

These words speak so powerfully of the simple truth that God desires passionately to have a relationship with all human beings. In the depths of his being, God loves us, provides for us, and wants to share with us his very heart and spirit and life. For those of us who regret that we only turn to God in the difficult times, we can be confident that our God is not a God who keeps score but loves us so unconditionally that he wants to be with us in the good times and in the bad, for better or for worse, all the days of our lives as reflected in the words of the marriage vow quoted above. In both the Old and New Testament, the relationship between God and his people is likened to the love and fidelity between a husband and wife. Our God invites us to an intimate friendship that will light the way for us from the moment we are born until the moment we stand before God at the end of our life.

Perhaps the real challenge of today’s Gospel is to recognize that we need God and that our lives are incomplete without him. Centering our lives on a relationship with God may be difficult in a world that offers so many other options and distractions. Our own needs and desires and even the material attractions of our culture can become like gods to us. We may not often think of our lives as “burdensome” but at some point we are all touched by struggle or the weight of life. The current pandemic is proof of that. But like a husband and wife who have pledged themselves to each other, God has given himself to us completely in Christ. He desires every human being to be embraced by the power of his love. In taking his “yoke,” upon ourselves, the yoke being the daily work of his love, we can find not only “rest”, but peace and joy as well. Doing the work of his love each day is how our relationship with God can become a partnership as powerful as the best of marriages “in the good times and in the bad..”

Fr. Joe


 With extreme joy and gratitude to God, we are happy to welcome back members of our parish family after three months of difficulty and separation. As progress continues to be made against the corona virus, we are so happy to gather with you around the Lord’s table and to share the Eucharist. As we have mentioned previously in the bulletin, we still must be very careful to protect everyone’s health, and therefore the celebration of Mass will look somewhat different. Those details can be found on the next page, but the DECISION OF WHEN TO COME BACK TO MASS IS YOURS.

To help you make that decision, the Bishop’s Office has emphasized the following:

1. The Bishop has dispensed all Catholics of every age from the obligation to attend Mass on Sundays and Holy days.  This dispensation remains in effect until further notice. This means there is nothing wrong in deciding to stay home if you just don’t feel comfortable or safe in venturing out or in being in a large group of people. Use your own good judgement. The corona virus is still a reality and if you choose to wait before you come back to Mass, that’s OK.

2. Those who are at higher risk for the corona virus which is anyone who is over 65 years of age or anyone who has an underlying health condition are encouraged to stay home.

3. Anyone who is not feeling well and anyone with a fever or a cough should not come to church to attend Mass, or for any other ceremonies or purpose. A WORD ABOUT THE SCHEDULE The Bishop’s Office, in cooperation with New York State, requires that we maintain social distancing at all times. In order to maintain the “distancing” of 6 feet, only 1 out of every 3 pews will be open for seating, with the other two pews sealed off. For us that means that our church will be “filled” when we have about 80 to 90 people at Mass, depending on how many of those attending are families who sit together or individuals sitting alone. Given everyone’s concern about the virus, it is impossible for us to predict how many members of our parish family will feel comfortable coming back to church in the first few weeks that we are open. It may be a small group and coming back to the numbers of people we used to see at church may require a very gradual process of rebuilding. On the other hand, if a large number of people come back right away, we are concerned that we might have to turn people away at any given Mass because the church is “full,” that is, full according to the distancing requirement.

IF NECESSARY, we will be ready to accommodate an “overflow” crowd with a second Mass downstairs on the Lower Level. For this weekend, we will repeat the schedule that we had for last weekend and that is 5:00 o’clock Mass on Saturday evening,    Mass will be at 8:00 o’clock in the morning, 10:00 o’clock, and 12 noon on Sunday. We also must schedule the Masses 2 hours apart to allow time for the church to be disinfected between each Mass. Since we are finding our way back to some “normalcy”, it may be necessary to change the Mass schedule on future Sundays. Please stay in touch with our website or call the Parish Office to keep updated.

Returning to church to celebrate Mass with our beloved parish family fills us with joy and hope for the future. At the same time, we would like to offer some facts to help you prepare for the changes that you will experience in church because of the pandemic. Our hope and prayer is that many, if not, all of these changes may be temporary. Just as we have tried to be patient with everything else that has happened in these extraordinary times, so let us pray for patience with the different ways that we will be praying together.

How will Mass be different? Knowing that we still must be cautious, the following measures will be necessary in order for us to gather for Mass:

1. Everyone will be required to wear a mask in order to enter church and the mask must stay on for the duration of Mass. The only exceptions to this will be children who are two years old or younger and people who have breathing difficulties.. As we have heard so often, the masks are not only to protect one’s own health but for the health and safety of people around you.

2. In the parking lot, in entering church, and after you are inside, everyone must practice social distancing. That means a distance of at least 6 feet from another person. The only exception to this is people who live together or traveled to the church together. Couples or families may sit together but once a group is seated, the next group or individual must be at least 6 feet away.

3. There will be no missalettes or bulletins available because of the danger of communicating the virus when they are touched by others.

4. Singing will be kept to minimum. While our Music Ministry is always ready and willing to serve as they have done so beautifully in the past, those attending Mass should only sing the usual responses if they have a mask on because vigorous singing may increase the spread of the virus.

5. There will be no holy water fonts in order to lessen the spread of the virus, but if you wish to take holy water home, you may obtain it in the room behind the main altar.

6. Collection baskets will not be passed from hand to hand. The collection for each Mass will be taken up by placing large baskets at the doors of church. (We should note here how grateful we are to so many people who have been mailing in their weekly donations. After thirteen Sundays with no collection being taken up, your generosity is so appreciated. We have ordered collection baskets with long poles so that sometime in the future, we will be able to take up a collection in a manner that is more safe than “passing the basket” by hand. (continued)

7. For the time being, our altar servers who do so much to add to the dignity and the reverence of our liturgical celebrations will be on “hiatus” to protect their health and to allow for social distancing up on the altar.

8. At the beginning of Mass, the priest and the other minsters such as the deacon and the lector will not process up the center aisle nor will they process down the aisle at the end of Mass in order to avoid close contact with many people.

9. For the same reason there will be no Offertory procession whereby parishioners bring up the gifts of bread and wine for the Eucharist.

10. The Sign of Peace will be omitted until further notice.

11. The distribution of Communion will take place not during Mass but after Mass has ended. After the final blessing, the priest, and the deacon and the extraordinary ministers will go to their communion stations as usual. Those who wish to receive communion may come forward in the usual way. As always, we respect each person’s decision as to whether or not to receive communion, especially because of the pandemic. Those who are not going to receive can exit the church after the final blessing. Those who are going to receive can come up in the usual way to one of the communion stations. As they do so they remove their mask and if they have gloves, they are removed as well. After receiving communion, the person may offer a brief prayer of thanksgiving before leaving the church. Communion from the cup will not be offered until further notice.

12. For health reasons, everyone is strongly encouraged to receive communion in the hand since it dramatically lessens the possibility of the virus being spread. Each person still has the right to receive on the tongue. All those waiting on line to receive should remain 6 feet be- hind the person in front of them. There will be markers on the floor to indicate the 6 foot distance.

PLEASE NOTE: We will continue the video version of our Sunday Mass until further notice, and we thank so many parishioners who have responded positively to the video. As so many have said, “it’s not the same as being there,” but we are happy to have the contact with you. One more thought and a prayer: On this weekend when summer begins and we celebrate Father’s Day, we pray: Lord, gather us together for a new season of light and hope. Help us to be grateful for all who have played a “fatherly” role in our lives, for their wisdom, their protection and care, and for the guidance they have lovingly shared with us. And as you, Lord, are Father to the whole human family, bless us with the power of your love. In these difficult days, we ask you to restore us and the whole world to health and to peace. Amen.

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